For every person who has gained a rupee, there is a person who has lost one. For every business thats at profit, there is one which is at an equal loss. Can the same rule be extended to happiness?? What exactly would this mean?? For every person who becomes happy at a certain instant, would there be someone who is becoming sad as a result??
Disclaimer:
I dont have a clue what makes me think of such things. But for those who are still interested in this. Read on!!
There is one major obstacle that I face while tackling this problem. While money was a determinate quantity, happiness is not. While we can measure the amount of money one has, we cant measure how happy a person is. So lets assume a thing, if something good/desirable happens, then it is considered a happy event and vice versa.
Now let us apply this to a few specific cases:
1) Classroom Situation: Student A scores full marks in the test(out of 15). And he is the only person in the class who has done this.
Analysis: From our assumption, we can conclude that A's happiness quotient would increase. Lets see what happens to the others. For simpler understanding, lets divide the students based on the kind of marks that they have scored.
a) Students who have scored 14 and above: Most of the students will be happy with their scores. But there will be a select few who will be a little sad/frustrated because they have lost a chance to score full marks thanks to a very silly/miniscule error in their test.
b) Students between 10-14: Most of them will know that they can reach the elite category easily, and cross the thin line that exists between them and students of category (a). Some will be inspired, some will be satisfied, while some will be sad for sure because of the gap in performance despite the negligible gap in ability.
c) Students < 10: I dont think we need to consider this category because I really dont think they are worthy of comparison with both A and the students of category (a).
Conclusion: Happiness does lead to sadness.
2) Same as situation A. Only difference is that there are many people who have scored full marks in their test.
There is only one category of students that are worth consideration here. They are the many students who have scored in the 12-14 range who are feeling worse than they would have felt otherwise because of the number of people who have scored full marks.
Conclusion: Happiness leads to sadness, again.
Consider any other happening, there would always be someone sad for someone happy, some masochists for some sybarites and so on.. All this is a part of the intricate balance that is inherent in nature. Another reason I can think of is man's insatiable appetite for things he can do without, which keeps him whining all the time. There is no shortage of whiners in this world!! (Take the Arsenal football team for a start!! Man U rocks!!)
Consider a Utopian world in which everyone was happy. No one would even know what sadness felt like. Would the terms sadness and happiness even exist?? No. These are just causal responses by the human mind/heart to the surrounding conditions. Most people keep complaining about the vegetated lifestyles that they lead, but know one thing for a fact, our lives would be most boring without all this. I still don't know what made me write this post, but I ended up writing this for public viewing though I totally know for a fact that this would make sense only to very small section of readers. A similar analogy can be applied to the news channels of today, which thrive on delivering sensational news stories rather than stories which are morally/politically more important.
The earth, as created had everything in balance(Except Entropy, of course which keeps increasing!!!). Unfortunately man seems to be disrupting it, thanks to his promiscuous behaviour(Water, Energy etc to name a few). I have full faith in the disruptive powers of the human race, that there will be a time when even Emotional balance would be put to test. Very soon..
Disclaimer:
I dont have a clue what makes me think of such things. But for those who are still interested in this. Read on!!
There is one major obstacle that I face while tackling this problem. While money was a determinate quantity, happiness is not. While we can measure the amount of money one has, we cant measure how happy a person is. So lets assume a thing, if something good/desirable happens, then it is considered a happy event and vice versa.
Now let us apply this to a few specific cases:
1) Classroom Situation: Student A scores full marks in the test(out of 15). And he is the only person in the class who has done this.
Analysis: From our assumption, we can conclude that A's happiness quotient would increase. Lets see what happens to the others. For simpler understanding, lets divide the students based on the kind of marks that they have scored.
a) Students who have scored 14 and above: Most of the students will be happy with their scores. But there will be a select few who will be a little sad/frustrated because they have lost a chance to score full marks thanks to a very silly/miniscule error in their test.
b) Students between 10-14: Most of them will know that they can reach the elite category easily, and cross the thin line that exists between them and students of category (a). Some will be inspired, some will be satisfied, while some will be sad for sure because of the gap in performance despite the negligible gap in ability.
c) Students < 10: I dont think we need to consider this category because I really dont think they are worthy of comparison with both A and the students of category (a).
Conclusion: Happiness does lead to sadness.
2) Same as situation A. Only difference is that there are many people who have scored full marks in their test.
There is only one category of students that are worth consideration here. They are the many students who have scored in the 12-14 range who are feeling worse than they would have felt otherwise because of the number of people who have scored full marks.
Conclusion: Happiness leads to sadness, again.
Consider any other happening, there would always be someone sad for someone happy, some masochists for some sybarites and so on.. All this is a part of the intricate balance that is inherent in nature. Another reason I can think of is man's insatiable appetite for things he can do without, which keeps him whining all the time. There is no shortage of whiners in this world!! (Take the Arsenal football team for a start!! Man U rocks!!)
Consider a Utopian world in which everyone was happy. No one would even know what sadness felt like. Would the terms sadness and happiness even exist?? No. These are just causal responses by the human mind/heart to the surrounding conditions. Most people keep complaining about the vegetated lifestyles that they lead, but know one thing for a fact, our lives would be most boring without all this. I still don't know what made me write this post, but I ended up writing this for public viewing though I totally know for a fact that this would make sense only to very small section of readers. A similar analogy can be applied to the news channels of today, which thrive on delivering sensational news stories rather than stories which are morally/politically more important.
The earth, as created had everything in balance(Except Entropy, of course which keeps increasing!!!). Unfortunately man seems to be disrupting it, thanks to his promiscuous behaviour(Water, Energy etc to name a few). I have full faith in the disruptive powers of the human race, that there will be a time when even Emotional balance would be put to test. Very soon..
11 comments:
whoa...I agree with you..the only reason we value moments of happiness is cos we've gone through a period of pain or sadness...otherwise we would never know the difference... great post nandi ! :) I like the way u have analyzed it and summarized it...
P.S and those news channels are damn irritating ..they keep flashing useless bits of news most of the time!!!
Thanks a lot manasweeeee!! Watch ESPN STAR, you can see ManU rock!!
gosh! when did my little bro start talkin greek and latin? ;)
all I can say is :P
Hey,
Well Said Harry,
And to add it, if a person is has a great amount of sadness wiht him, then even a small tiny little spec of happiness makes a difference.
But for those wiht silver spoons, nothing affects, they are happy anyways.
But the fact remains, Life is unfair.
So u dont get the same amount of happiness for the amount of sadness you faced and vice versa.
hey hariya.. don agree fully wid dat analysis. But yes, i agree dat "we value happiness onli if we've felt the pain".
I'm sorry but thats d onli part i agree. Especially dat "score theory"! No ways! I don believe comparin my happiness proportional to the events takin place in someone else's life!
You can't quantify happiness. It depends on an individual and if someone is dumb enough to determine his/her happiness by comparison with others.. Thats just plain sad. And it cant be said that for every happy person, there is a sad person present. Life's not always proportionate.. but it is true that a person tends to be more happy during joyous occasions when he has experienced a lot of sorrow otherwise... But ur thought train's v different and coherent :) nice...
Slippeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee I agree with wharever you wrote da! and i just figured how to post comments too :) and I hate my chemistry paper too! So i'm fully planning to wreck it lol.... Humdinger Slipperwaaa :D
@divya, Sreep:
Its a known fact that there are v. few people who think straight(morally right). People are as interested in dragging someone down, as they are in lifting themselves up.. That was the point I was making. In such cases, success of another person becomes his failure!!
Cheers,
Thoth!
How do you explain the happiness of those guys get 10/14 because they spent their time more usefully (like watching Raikkonnen winning the Australian Grand Prix!).
Your model fails to consider the innumerable factors that comprise 'happiness'. What say?
All I can say is that "The happiness that they gained by seeing the race would be compensated by the disappointment that they suffer from because of their mediocre performance in the exam"..
And it can be denied equally convincingly.. And as far as considering the factors that affect happiness go, I did not do it because it simply cant be done!!
PS: Thanks a lot for your comments!!
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